Dating a girl with three kids
My situation is a little different because I have kids with the guy who also has an ex wife and son. What stinks is that I can sit here and tell you to have trust etc. The kids know about me and the two times we met he told me they really liked me.
It seems he's not sure how to bring me into their relationship.
I am trying to be patient as he's asked me to do so.
I guess I just worry that this will be yet another relationship that just hurts in the end and was a waste of time. I've waited with marriage until I found someone I was really in love with. His two beautiful daughters I've come to love as my own. You might be happy now, but it's NOT worth the possible heartache. It's been two months, I'm becoming stronger every day. Hi Troe -I just stumbled upon this website looking for advice on my relationship. It was love at first sight and we have been head over heels in love ever since. He usually has them on the weekends and some weeknights and I am never asked to join.
” First, whether a man has children of his own or not, there is nothing wrong with preferring to date women without children.To quote the great , when you find the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible. It may not be exactly easy to integrate that love into the life you had with your kids before that person came along, but it's not impossible.You may find that you spend more time thinking about your motherly (or fatherly) physique. Keep in mind that if you're dating in your age range, the people you're dating are probably thinking the same things about their body that you are. Our approach was to always try to make our house a place of safety and stability. In fact it's not only possible, it's completely worth it.Does your relationship and future and love for this woman outweigh the awkardness and uncomfortable feelings you may have to endure from time to time? It was unfair of me and I immediatly apologized for acting like jerk.I personally think it's something that could improve with time or if you worked with your gf on it. She apologized for putting me in that situation but it will happen again. But I'm wondering if I'm not ready to deal w/ crap like this.